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Looking for the Signs Your Marriage Is Over

Marriages can drag on for years and years without either spouse realizing that there is just nothing there any longer. He develops his diversions, and she has her own activities. They seldom talk, and if they do, they don't really talk about issues in their lives. There is no intimacy left between them, the loving feelings have vanished, and both of them are miserable without realizing they are. At this point, many marriages take a turn for the worse. They can become abusive in the absence of love, and they may find other lovers to fill the void left by their spouse. So what are the signs your marriage is over, and when can a relationship be saved?

One sign that a marriage is over is when you stop having romantic interludes together. Intimacy is essential in order to keep the love within the marriage fresh and alive. If you lose interest in enjoying time together in this manner, there's something seriously wrong with your relationship. Can't you remember a time when you could hardly keep your hands off of each other? You have to admit that your physical relationship had a lot to do with your attraction to each other, and desire should never end, no matter what age you get to be. Even elderly couples who can't have sex as such enjoy loving each other, and the fact that you don't says your problems are major.

Another sign that your marriage is probably over is when your spouse starts thinking of reasons not to come home. If he or she is always having to work late without having extra hours on his paycheck, or if he's also going out with the boys or playing pool or golf instead of spending time with you, this could be a sign that he is not interested in his marriage any more and is trying to avoid you. Of course, it's often the case that if this person is not interested in his marriage, he could well be having an affair. While an affair doesn't have to be the beginning of the end of a relationship, it often is. And if your spouse seems to drift from affair to affair while telling you he still loves you, it's time for you to get out of the marriage and cut your losses.

If you're seeing the signs that your marriage is over and still don't want to give up, you can try visiting with a marriage coach to ask him, "Is my marriage over?" If the coach believes there is no hope, he will be able to guide you on the easiest path to divorce, helping you get over the negative feelings and feel good about yourself again.